"Is this an outrage or a bummer? Think carefully before you settle into your choice." - Carolyn Hax
An outrage or a bummer indeed.  Having mistaken one for the other, in the clumsy manner that only I could ever manage, I've taken the latter and managed to turn it into the former.
People who want details will know that there was a girl involved.  There was a bummer.  I got outraged. What might have been a great friendship (or more, perhaps?) slipped from my fingers.  And I'm mostly to blame. 
Which, is a REAL bummer.
